- Love is the issue not self-interest. There are 100 ways to kiss her/his presence.
- You can keep pointing things out. Your critical remarks will destroy the remaining love.
- Never believe your will can change someone. Your love will change another, sooner or later.
- The faultfinder will only see faults. The one under attack will withdraw or return the fire.
- Never undermine your partner’s vision. Your partner will be reluctant to share their vision.
- Share with each other to find the Truth. Truth shows the way to respond with wisdom.
- Feelings, thoughts and views arise, stay and pass like everything else. Why make such a fuss?
- There is neither togetherness, nor separation, neither sameness nor differences.
- You are not the person you think you are. She/he is not the person you think s/he is. A relief.
- Desire stifles the erotic. Lovemaking is erotic. Love allows passion to flow freely.
- Make love. In bed. In the bath. Reclining. Standing. Under the table. Under the stars. Aged from 16 to 116.
- Take total responsibility for what you feel. This is a sign of maturity. Watch out for transference.
- Be mindful of the words that follow the word “You…” when speaking to your partner.
- Love reveals itself most easily in the sheer enjoyment of two people listening to each other.
- We all wish to be loved and understood. It tops the list. Never forget this simple truth.
- Love is when two people love being together – speaking/silence/much said/little said.
- The claim ‘I have made so many sacrifices for you’ is an ego trip. Love transcends ego.
- You cannot always get what you want. You have your limitations and so does your partner.
- Know thyself in terms of strengths and weaknesses and know the one who is close in the same way.
- A relationship ends. It is often hard for the one who ends the relationship as for the other.
- The one who ends the relationship may feel deep regret later. Wisdom makes the transition from partners to friends.
- To see is to express. To express appreciation is love. To know and name beauty is love.
- Know the points of sunshine of a cloudy day. Never cling to the past to support another cloudy day.
- Be mindful of the word ‘commitment.’ A person’s presence today takes priority over future.
- ‘Mind the Gap’ in face of differences. No two people are the same and no two people are different.
PS. LOVE MUCH. WANT LITTLE.
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